Health Day News reports that a large study by Cornell University found that married people are happier than others. I hope that this comes as no surprise to most people, but just in case, here's an excerpt from the HDN story for your enjoyment and edification:
Women and men in committed relationships are happier than other people, claims a Cornell University study. Researchers analyzed information collected from 691 people and found that the stronger the commitment, the greater the sense of happiness and well-being.
Married people had the highest sense of well-being, whether they were happily married or not. Next on the scale of happiness and well-being were people who were living together, followed by people in steady relationships and those in casual relationships.
The findings were published in a recent issue of the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships.
"Some commitment appears to be good, but more commitment appears to be even better," study author Claire Kamp Dush, a postdoctoral fellow with the Evolving Family Theme Project of the Institute for Social Sciences at Cornell, said in a prepared statement.
The finding that even people in unhappy marriages had a high sense of well-being and happiness may be due to the benefits they derive from the stability, commitment and social status of marriage, Kamp Dush said.
"Even when controlling for relationship happiness, being married is associated with higher self-esteem, greater life satisfaction, greater happiness and less distress, whereas people who are not in stable romantic relationships tend to report lower self-esteem, less life satisfaction, less happiness and more distress," she said.
7 comments:
Or as the Talmud (Yebamot 62b) puts it: "Any man who has no wife is in a state devoid of joy, devoid of blessing, devoid of goodness."
"...married people are happier than others."
So why oppose gay marriage? Then everyone can be happy!
Because marriage, by definition, is the legal, sexual, social, etc. union of men and women.
We don't actually know what sort of sociological results we'll get from same sex unions. It will be interesting to find out.
My guess is that we'll see a lot of these deals working out reasonably well with gay women and not so many with gay men.
So why oppose gay marriage? Then everyone can be happy!
It's my own completely non-scientific guess that it's not being married that makes you happier, but attaining the frame of mind necessary to getting and staying married that makes you happier. It's my further guess, based on observing my friends, that gay men, at least, are extremely unlikely to cultivate that frame of mind, whether they "marry" or not.
It's my further observation, again of my friends, that any gay man who says he wants marriage is self-deluded or lying. What he really wants is a wedding.
Kathy, that is one of the more perceptive comments I have ever read.
You can't say that, can you, Kathy?
Love is love, regardless of the plumbing involved. The American Psychological Association says so, so it's an established scientifical fact.
And I think they even held a vote, so you know it was scientific!
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